I am a GAY?

Who said you are a GAY?

Well when you read my subjects heading you would be surprised and shocked. Some may say well I said I am a GAY.

But let’s sit back for a while and really think unbiased about this sentence… Who said you are a GAY?

For this let me ask you to sit down in some place where there is total isolation and no one to disturb you. Alright if you are settled down let me ask you to read below and try thinking over it.


When was it first that you felt that you are a GAY. When was the first time you had a desire of being a gay.

To make this simpler let me ask you some questions:
Was it that you were molested by some same sex friend / brother who are elder to you?
Were you molested by your same sex friend?
Was it some pornographic site of same sex that you happened to pep in while surfing internet?
Was it you overheard someone talking about it?
Was it that you saw your same sex person nude or top less?
Did you see his biceps or body which was much better than yours?
Was it that you and your same sex partner were watching a movie and wanted to express out and found non other than you both
Was it that you and your same sex partner shared the same room or bed while staying in a hostel or mess?
Was it that burning desire of you heart and emotional to enter into a relationship and were scared to have it with the opposite sex?
Was it that you were just tired and wanted to try something new?

Well I think most of you infact all of you will find that out of the top ten questions ones of them is your answer.

Well don’t believe me? Close your eyes and go back to that first day when you found this desire and emotions in you. When was it. Let’s not lie with each other but lets be unbiased in finding it out. You will find that yes I am correct and if not then something in consensus to above question is what had happened to you.

Its time that you realized that you are into some thing that has made you say “I am Gay”. Let me tell you one thing clear you are NOT gay.

God created two sexes male and female and Science has agreed to this fact. The disorder that arises in some cases leads to hormonal imbalance and during embryo development you either land up in hormonal difference, genetically difference due to this imbalance of hormones. And you end up to a category of gender known as eunuchs. But even in them I believe there is a majority gender hormone that dominates the other.

There is no way that this hormonal difference will lead you to a healthy life but enter into a sexual attraction to same sex. It’s only that because of the environment or situation through which we go by that leads us to an unexpected ending of same sex relationship which makes us feel that I am GAY. Again because you keep getting into it, you keep thinking on to this you finally start saying I am GAY. Alright let me tell you almost majority of this “I am Gay” type people finally end up into a opposite sex marriage and as they start discovering a new relationship they start realizing what the hell we were into and then say “ I am Normal”.

There is no way that a person is born Gay. It is only due to the surrounding of his growth that he lands up into desire of having same sex relationship.
Even normal people have same sex friends and they too do have a relationship, probably they are best buddies in the world but then because the previous mentioned situations never came in their way, they never think of this same sex friendship into a relationship that ends physical, they hug, they fight, they put their hands around shoulder and walk but they know the limits of their relationship.

Try thinking beyond the thought that – “I am Gay”. Think around saying “I am normal” but situations made me feel I am abnormal but I can win over it. Well keep your same sex friendship nobody wants you to run from same sex friends. Infact keep them and cherish it but set a limit to this relationship. If your emotions go out of control I better would say start dating with an opposite sex and discover a new relationship in it. That doesn’t mean that you go flirting around. Trust me it is much much more beautiful than you might have ever thought.

Its just that you need to control your life and emotions. Above all if you are already into this thinking that you are a gay, then it will be tough and difficult for you to get over it. But its not impossible. Gods grace is sufficient for you. I will write more about how well you can get over this problem of accepting something that you really are not.

God bless you!

How can I let this happen?

One of my orkut scrap got a reply as under:
“I guess everyone has their own Sexual Preference and the Indian Govt has taken a right step. What if a Gay boy marries a Girl?? It would certainly ruin two lives.. Removal of Section 377 from IPC will help such people and we need to respect people with such sexual preference and not condemn them because even these people are Gods creation like you and me... I may be wrong with what I may have written above but this is my way of thinking to such an issue. Please share ur views also on this through the forum “

I am forced to write this article to my friend and all that who think like him. I just wanna put three main points before I share and ask a simple question that considering these three main point and understanding its meaning without any bias ask yourself… How can I let this happen?
Firstly - It is against my Lords will and Law

Secondly - i will not like to encourage anything that will back bite me. How can I encourage this and wait for my son to come back and tell me - Dad I am a gay!!!!!.

Thirdly - Science has already classified natural sex and un natural sex. How can I permit un natural sex be promoted legally and how can i wait and watch the reaction to this action as per as Scientist Newton’s third Law


Religion, Science and My own desire does not permit me in any ways.... How then can I let this happen?

Well it is true that we should allow everyone to have his or her own will to decide, Even God gave Adam and Eve their freedom of choice and they ate from the tree which was forbidden to them. What was the consequence? They were thrown out of the Garden of Eden and for the rest of the life and for the generation till us have to bear wrath of God. Look at the word of God. It clearly says no to Homosexuality.

Let me give you some references:

Lev 18:22-23 "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

Lev 20:13 “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death."

1 Cor 6:9 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals"

1 Tim 1:9-10 "realizing the fact that (civil) law is not made for a righteous man, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers"

Rom 1:26-27 "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."


Are these verses enough or you guys needing more??
Bible has been from day one laying out rules of living along with the freedom to choose. If you choose right you have the fruit according to it else vice versa.

Let me get into science. Bible has already said that this act is un natural as in the last verse above. Even science says and has accepted it that sex is meant to be only between male and female and not between male to male and female to female.
Natural sex leads to pregnancy and further life cycle. While un natural sex is nothing but just an act to quench your thirst of mind.

I also wish to emphasize here that love is different and physical love is different. Every one including the so called LGBT community agrees this. I just hear one of the prominent leaders of a community saying sex is a small part of Gay. I would say cut the crap.

Love is a classification of affection that is between father son, father daughter, mother son, mother daughter, friends, relatives, God, humanity at large, animals and plants and nature.

Physical Sex is something where you unite in love and have intimate relationship which includes body and Gods natural creation has been very clear in giving a body that can unite in physical sex between male and female.

Lets not merge both love, for of if we do it, then tomorrow on we give full liberty to all relations to enter into this Physical Sex relationship.

I will be sharing more about this in my next article but let me tell you how gay sex is not natural but un natural and is more of a phobic disease that can be easily removed.

Read more…
http://indeance.com/index.php/teen-battle/homosexualtiy/52-how-can-i-let-this-happen-

http://gayisminindia.blogspot.com/2009/07/how-can-i-let-this-happen.html

Homosexuality is in my DNA? Is it?

I found an article saying "Homosexuality is in my DNA"

I started thinking on this to understand that is this true? To the first glance i really felt that this is a fact. Gayism could be in born and a person is a gay not because he wishes to but it’s because his DNA forces him.

I started thinking of the fact where did this DNA come in us?what I realized was that when a male and female unite in intercourse is when the male chromosomes unite with the female chromosomes that they pair up to form a unique creation which beings with the pair up and formation of DNA

Till date I have never heard that the male chromosomes unite with another male chromosome to form a DNA structure nor have I heard of a female chromosome uniting with another female chromosome to form a DNA structure.

To a base to this statement i made let me share something i read in an article as under:

The DNA of the chromosomes determines the features a person inherits from his or her parents, such as blood type, hair color, eye color, and other characteristics, including risks for developing certain diseases.

Chromosomes are cell structures that carry genetic material (DNA), or genes. They are a part of every cell in the body.Humans have 46 chromosomes (23 pairs). Half of a person's chromosomes come from the mother and half from the father. One of the 23 pairs determines a person's sex. The sex chromosomes are called X and Y. For a child to be female, she must inherit an X chromosome from each parent (XX). For a child to be male, he must inherit an X chromosome from his mother and a Y chromosome from his father (XY).
From this I can only say if you say Gayism is ones DNA then it is nothing but a disease that one has to be removed. You do not live with a disease but remove it from root to get a life that is worth living.
I just justified myself in science and in Religion

I would say when God created man, He created them in His own image and in His image he created them both Male and Female.
Religion clearly says that it is Male and Female there is nothing that says He created a new gender as “Gay” nor do I believe that His image has Gayism
What I would say is Homosexuality can never be in ones DNA. It's nothing but a basic environment that leads you to create a mentality of the fact that this is what I am.

Days ahead I will give you more justifications. For now just look on to the image of this article and think over it.

The journey

I got intrested in knowing how did fight being in India? i lately got an understanding of what was the origin.

The journey to this point as on 03 July 2009 started eight years ago when Naz, a non-profit group, filed the petition to read down Section 377. In 2004, the court dismissed the plea.

The fight for the cancellation of Section 377 kept moving with more and more people joining into this fight.

Though there were was a increase in number, the fact was that it was all in the shadow and nothing came in the light. I feel probably should have kept moving on... but it was lately in mid June 2009 that I hear a lot of ratling and noise about this fact. and finally on 03 July 2009 I hear that the worst of my dreams is now a realtiy. Again this is my view, there are thousands and lakhs of people around me that feel that this is an historic move, this is an expreimental move, this is really good, finally i can say i am a gay... and so much more.... but what i feel is .. is this a short term joy to a long term suffering?

Is this a happy ending?

On 03 July 2009, when I woke up and looked into my most favroutie and one of the leading news providers, I foung a tag line saying : Happy ending to battle that began in 2001
I was excited of what could this be the battle. Is this the battle for ecconomic growth or is the battle for technology or is this the battle for some special agrrement like the Indo US Nuclear Agreeement.
But as I read it slowly down I realized that it is the one of the news that could shake the base of our culture our tradition that we have valued about.
I understood that the High Court has finally given a verdict that legalises the homosexual act with mutual consensus.

I am not here to critizse the High Courts judgement nor do I have itentions of saying homosexuals should be punished but I am here to share about the life before 03 July 2009 and after 03 July 2009. I am here to raise my voice to share about what could be the consequence that can arrise due to this legalization. I am here to share about what I am concerned about my future.
Once again in my first article itself i will say I am not here to hurt any emotions or feelings, I am here to share what I feel and what concerns me. If you feel that this is not your cup of tea please simply ignore every single word of this blog and move on in your life. But if you feel that no this is something that is even your concern join in and lets find ways of effectively living in this new cultural change we have before us. Lets together find how we can ensure that our childrens do not turn into a Homosexual.
After all i would be the last person to be known as a homosexual sons father.